setting in my sofa, I was wondering if am able to do the right thing? having a degree, but confused about my future? never felt like that?

Well, then welcome to the club!

Here, I’ll show you some habits I included in my life, but let’s go back in the late 2014 in Italy, since highschool, I was basicaly trying so hard to be the best!  Not necessary for myself, but for my family! I was doing exaclty what they were wishing me to do.

Now, how I wish I have realized in time that am only the one who  matter! I am the one who can decide and choose the right path.

I was  reading this book, ‘the psychology of selling‘; the first impression was the same serial book, with same themes and argument, that at a certain point I wanted to stop reading it.

then, a part of it caught my attention, this chapter was called ‘Act on your ideas‘ ; how? by applying small steps:

make concentrated listening a habit

the results may seem slow at first, but if set aside a short period each morning or evening,you can soon realize you can listen with full attention in every moment of your life. This does not in greater cash rewards that come to the top sales any way preclude casual listening- for example while driving,eating and so on. It is simply a form of concentrated listen, that are going to help you in your new approach of life.

Jot down your ideas

Once you internalize your listening habit, keep next to you a pen and a paper, start recording any idea to pass in your mind; think about it in connection with your daily basis, such as work, your current situation.

But more important is to think of its value to you, and how you can improve thanks to it; this make you have notes that remind youself of your thinking, ideas, and ambition; it does also address you to take correct correction during the days ahead.

In my case i have started to be more conscious about what i want, and how to organized efficiently my time schedule, so you are not going to put in second plan your passion and hubbies.

Now you are questioning youself:

How we become so intensely goal oriented?

Goals need to be realistic yet challenging, which means challenge yourself daily, define your goals in terms of activities that you will engage to achieve the desired level.

Be aware that activities mentioned here, are small and realistic, such as calls,deliveries or presentations. Once you set a goal, everything will be easy; how? your subconscious have the quality to move you faster.;just set this habit in your family and as well personal goals.

I suggest you to take always you a small agenda where you write your list of the things you want to do, despite being successful.

see you soon,

sal